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Protecting Your Inner Environment: Mindfulness and Emotional Regulation for Clear Focus and Progress
In our fast-paced world, maintaining clarity and focus requires more than just willpower—it demands conscious protection of your internal environment. Your inner landscape, comprising thoughts, emotions, and energy, serves as the foundation for every action you take towards your vision. Understanding Your Internal Environment: Why Protecting Your Energy, Mind, and Spirit Matters Your internal environment—comprising your thoughts, emotions, and energy—is the foundation for cla
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Travelling Light: Awareness and Wisdom on the Journey to Your Goals
Resentment, anger, and envy can feel like heavy burdens that drain creativity and joy. Emotional baggage often weighs us down as we strive for change in life or career. This post explores how awareness of what we carry empowers us to move forward with clarity and grace. Recognise the Weight Identify the emotional burdens holding you back Name Your Experience Label feelings without judgement to gain mastery Choose Growth Transform pain into wisdom for the journey ahead Naming,
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Mind the GAPS in Coaching- Creating a safe and empowering space for transformation through grounded, autonomous, reflective practice
The Art of Subtle Excellence So it's 3am and I find myself thinking about the invisible work in coaching. And then suddenly a mnemonic was born. GAPS! So here I am taking the imperfect action of bringing my early hour morning framework thinking to you hot off the press! In the world of coaching, it's often the subtle elements that make the biggest difference. The nuanced gestures, the carefully chosen words, the quality of our presence—these are the elements that distinguish
Dec 6, 2025


From Feeling Lost to Finding Viability: The Story Behind Vision to Viability
Every meaningful programme has a heartbeat, and Vision to Viability was born from a deeply personal journey through uncertainty and discovery. This is the story of transforming confusion into clarity, and isolation into community. The Journey Through the Maze There were moments early in my career when I felt profoundly disillusioned, standing at crossroads without a clear map forward. I possessed the skills to coach effectively, carried a burning passion for transforming live
Dec 5, 2025


Supervision: nice to have or necessity?
Originally published for EMCC 2024- European Mentoring & Coaching Council UK Coaching supervisor Crystal Small brings a metaphorical and playful exploration to this question. She invites the supervision cynic or sceptic to accompany her through a three-act play which explores the benefits of supervision for coaches. And as with any good play, Crystal invites you, the audience, to make your mind up at the end. Read on for an innovative, theatrical take on why supervision matte
Nov 28, 2025


From desk bound to purpose driven
Years ago, I sat at a desk twelve floors up, gazing out at a beautiful London skyline. It was a moment in a career I had built with dedication. I was surrounded by a team I respected and milestones I was genuinely proud of. And yet, beneath that sense of accomplishment was a whisper that something was missing. This wasn’t the story I thought I’d be living. In fact, I’d never really had a script for my career at all. I wasn’t one of those people who always knew they wanted to
Oct 31, 2025


My Secret (and Now Not-So-Secret) Coaching Pet Peeves
(A thought piece for coaches who love the craft… but occasionally roll their eyes too) Let’s be honest. For all the talk about curiosity, presence, and partnership, there are moments in coaching that make even the most serene professional want to quietly close their laptop and whisper, “Did that really just happen?” You know the ones. The moments that stretch the very fabric of our patience, that test our capacity to stay professional while our inner coach is having a full-on
Oct 24, 2025


When Curiosity Crosses the Line: How Far Is Too Far?
A thought piece for reflective coaches Coaching, at its heart, is fuelled by curiosity. It helps us step into another person’s world, listen beyond words, and follow the quiet trail of meaning that can lead to insight and change. But lately, I’ve been wondering, can curiosity ever go too far? I’m not talking about clear boundary breaches or ethical violations. I mean the subtle moments that often slip past unnoticed. The moments where a question feels just a little too sharp.
Oct 24, 2025


Beyond Safe: The Rise of Psychological Safety Fatigue
By Crystal Small | Intentional Steps Ltd “Let’s make this a safe space.” We say it often — in coaching, in leadership, in teams. The...
Oct 10, 2025


The Fatigue of Self-Improvement
By Crystal Small | Intentional Steps Ltd There was a time when self-improvement felt liberating — the thrill of discovering that growth...
Oct 10, 2025


Beyond Algorithms: The Irreplaceable Pulse of Human Connection
Artificial intelligence has quickly become part of our working lives. It powers scheduling tools, handles data analysis, drafts emails,...
Oct 2, 2025


The True Cost of Fractured Focus
The Invisible Tax of Context Switching We've elevated multitasking to an art form in modern workplaces. Job descriptions celebrate...
Sep 23, 2025


The Competence Trap
Picture this scenario: your most technically brilliant team member receives a well-deserved promotion to management. Six months later,...
Sep 23, 2025


The Energy Audit Nobody's Doing
The Hidden Levers of Peak Performance In the relentless pursuit of productivity, most organisations are measuring the wrong things...
Sep 23, 2025


How Do You Want to Experience Your Business?
When I first began my coaching practice, I naively believed that success was simply about having enough clients and generating sufficient...
Sep 18, 2025


When the Coach Becomes Activated: Managing Personal Triggers in Coaching Sessions
Every coach faces moments when something in a session strikes a personal chord—when a client's story echoes our own struggles, when their...
Sep 18, 2025


Why Your Intentions Need Your Attention
Have you ever started your day with the best of intentions, only to find yourself derailed by emails, interruptions, or a sudden crisis?...
Sep 18, 2025


Why Relational Accountability Beats Willpower Every Time
I used to be great at negotiating with myself. Personal deadline? Extend it. Important task? Tomorrow’s fine. It was as if I’d discovered...
Sep 11, 2025


Why Your Brain is a Personal PA (and How Coaching Helps You Train It)
Have you ever decided you’re going to “eat healthier” and suddenly the universe seems to conspire against you? You walk into a café and...
Sep 11, 2025


Rewriting the Job Description of Your Life
I recently had a truly fantastic coaching session with Freya Blom that left me reflecting deeply on the roles I’ve carried through...
Aug 29, 2025
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